This week started out really busy for me, I am fortunate that I am able to make my own work schedule around everything else that goes on in my family, trying not to miss things that are important. I try to work about 24 hours each week and if I get a few extra that's fine too, although it's not always my goal. When Carson started Kindergarten, in order to take him and pick him up each day, I decided that I would try going back to nights. I knew I once could do them, but those were the days I could come home and sleep all day the following day. I hadn't tried it with kids yet. Anyway, I decided that if I didn't schedule two in a row, I thought I'd make it and I have. I normally find something to do to keep me busy, whether it's going to the church to visit with Lisa and work on that coming Sunday's Sunday School stuff or visit with another friend. And normally as long as I'm busy I'm fine until I pick Carson up at 1130 and we come home, eat lunch and take a 2 hour nap and I'm good then until after supper and time for bed. Well, this week, I don't know what I was thinking but I worked 12 hours Monday night and then was scheduled for 8 more on Tuesday night, which wasn't too bad but it was like working two in row. So, Tuesday morning, did my normal routine after working, took a shower, woke up the kids, ate breakfast, and we were off to school. I came back home and did some picking up and then I layed on the couch for about45 minutes, while Emilia played, with a timer set as well as the phone. She is so sweet when I need a nap like this after being up all night. Then I went to get Carson, we did the usual, ate, played a little and actually this day we went for a walk in the neighborhood b/c the weather was so nice, before our most recent cold front. Then we layed down around 2:15, read our books and didn't wake up until 5. Needless to say I was about 15 minutes late for work, but oh well.
Anyway, my friend Angie, called and invited me over on Wednesday morning with a couple of other ladies we go to church with for breakfast. I stopped at McDonalds and got me a latte, with my free coupon I might add, and went right on over. While there, we visited and ate and before I left, Angie said, "I have you something" she had made lasagna the night before and made some extra for my family. Ready to go, just needed heated up, because she knew that I would be so tired and after a nap on Wednesday would be back at church that night.
After saying all this, I realize I have to work some for financial reasons, but I'm so thankful that I don't have to put my children in daycare everyday all year long and that I'm fortunate enough to be able to take my little man to school each day and pick him up. I realize this isn't the best plan for all moms but I wouldn't trade anything for it. Anyway, I made the decision after talking with Vince and praying to work the nights, for several reasons, I'm with my children all day during the day and their waking hours and leave just before supper, baths and bedtime on the nights I work (after I make them supper most of the time). So, I'm really not gone from them but about 6-8 hours a week that they are awake. I also make a little more money working nights and that makes me not have to work as much. So, I feel like I can't really complain or whine and I try not too but it's so nice when someone else notices that I'm so tired and they do something sweet for me and my family to help me out. THANK YOU ANGIE!!! You're a great friend and I love you!!!